Not asking too much at all. Thats pretty normal to want thosw things. What you put in, you should expect to get back from the other person. If youre not, cut your losses and find someone who does ;D for the sake of our hearts we need to be ruthless, after all we dont live forever and theres certainly plenty of fishies swimming around to be fished lol dont worry about it sweetie, spread your net and have fun. The one for you will be the one who sticks around after all the shrimps have long gone :) and he will do anything to make you feel good and wanted.