Jun. 26th, 2012

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There is a phrase I’ve heard a lot about cheating and I’m sure some of you have heard it or something similar before too. The phrase (as I phrase it, ha):

If someone accuses you of cheating on them (for no reason) it’s probably because they are feeling guilty about cheating on you.

I’ve heard that or something similar to it so many times that it almost seems cliché and that it couldn’t possibly be true. Sadly, though, in my experience it’s as true as true can be. Every guy that has cheated on me had at one point accused me of cheating on them. That’s just crazy.

I was talking about this with a friend yesterday and she asked me what I would do if a future boyfriend ever accused me of cheating on him. If someone accused me of cheating on him I would have to end the relationship. Past experiences have dictated how I would react to something like that in the future. I don’t think I could ignore that in the past when I’ve been accused of cheating on someone it’s been because they’ve cheated on me. I can’t forget that. And while I’m more than willing to trust someone now, I’m not willing to put myself in such a situation again.

Now, I do know that someone could think I was cheating on them and not be cheating on me. In that case, the person has a lack of trust in me. That would really piss me off. I am trustworthy. I am honest. I do not believe in cheating on someone. I would never do that. And if someone actually, truly thought I was, that would hurt me. I wouldn’t want to be with someone who couldn’t trust me either. I deserve to be with someone who I can trust and who is willing to trust me. If I can trust you then dammit, you had damn well better trust me. ;)

So, long story short. If someone accused me of cheating on them it would be the end of the relationship. No matter the circumstances, it would never be true.


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